Financial Compatibility Assessment

Version 6.2.2

This assessment uses weighted scoring based on relationship research to identify specific behaviors that create financial conflict in relationships. Unlike generic quizzes, it diagnoses your primary issue and provides actionable interventions.

What This Tool Does Differently

Most compatibility quizzes give you a score and generic advice. This diagnostic identifies the specific behavior pattern causing the most damage, shows you the real cost of continuing, and gives you exact scripts and actions for the next 30 days.

The Methodology

Questions are weighted by severity: critical behaviors (financial secrets, controlling patterns, blame/contempt) carry 5x weight; high-impact behaviors (avoidance, unresolved conflicts) carry 3x weight; moderate friction points carry 1x weight. This ensures dangerous patterns aren't masked by a "medium" average.

The Research Foundation

Interventions are based on established relationship research, including communication frameworks from couples therapy and financial therapy best practices. All guidance uses qualified language and avoids unverifiable claims.

Disclaimer

This assessment provides educational information only. It is not relationship counseling or financial advice. Individual circumstances vary. Consult qualified professionals for personalized guidance.

© 2026 Raymond Sura, CRPC®, EA. All rights reserved.

Why This Assessment Is Different

Most compatibility quizzes ask you to rate yourself ("How good is your communication?"). The problem: people are terrible at accurately assessing their own behavior. You might think you're "pretty good" at money talks while your partner is silently frustrated.

Scenario-Based Diagnosis

Instead, this assessment presents specific situations and asks what actually happens. "When one of you makes a purchase the other didn't expect..." Your answer reveals the real pattern, not your self-perception.

Weighted Severity

Not all money conflicts are equal. Having different spending styles is manageable. Hiding accounts from your partner is relationship-threatening. This assessment weights behaviors by actual severity, so a serious issue doesn't get buried in a "medium risk" average.

One Clear Priority

You'll walk away knowing your single biggest issue—the one behavior that, if changed, would have the largest positive impact on your relationship.

Consequences Without Fluff

Generic advice ("money problems can hurt your relationship") doesn't motivate change. You already know that. What you need is a clear picture of the trajectory you're on.

The Cost of Inaction

For each identified risk, you'll see the logical consequence chain: what this behavior leads to over months and years if unchanged. Not scare tactics—just honest trajectory based on how these patterns typically unfold.

The Benefit of Change

You'll also see what improvement looks like. Not vague promises ("better communication"), but concrete outcomes: what couples who've addressed this specific issue typically experience.

Grounded in Reality

We don't use made-up statistics ("67% more likely to divorce"). We use logical consequences and qualified statements based on established relationship research.

Beyond "Communicate Better"

Generic advice is useless. "Have more money conversations" doesn't tell you what to say when your partner gets defensive, or how to bring up a topic you've been avoiding for months.

Exact Scripts

You'll get actual words you can use—conversation openers, responses when things get tense, ways to repair after conflict. Real language you can use tonight, not concepts to figure out on your own.

Week-by-Week Structure

Behavior change doesn't happen by reading advice. It happens through consistent action. Your 30-day plan breaks down exactly what to do each week, building new patterns gradually.

Success Metrics

How do you know if it's working? Each plan includes specific indicators so you can track progress, not just hope things are getting better.